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silo's avatar

d was curious what you think about the idea of shame being a learned behavior that perpetuates normative structures (benefitting the few) rather than structures that promote our well-being. I believe NOBODY naturally conforms to social conceptions of a ‘correct’ being in the world (especially those who benefit from our shame) but that mechanisms of failure/shame/success/reward are immediately accessible to the point where we lose ourselves in pursuit of an ideal. Fanon wrote a lot about the body-schemas of black people being buried under the imposed upon racial-historical schema. in this context, we would experience shame where our authentic being in the world doesn’t fit the ontology of the racial-historical schema. Now, since we SUPPOSEDLY live in a post-racial world, what does shame represent??? this also reminds me of Dr. L Bruce’s ‘HOW TO GO MAD WITHOUT LOSING YOUR MIND (bring back shame bc i yap sm about books i’ve yet to finish). here’s a line from that: the psy sciences “create and enforceable standard of what we are allowed to experience within the self without fear of persecution”

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Mist Saoirse Alderkin's avatar

This article is a brilliant, cutting breakdown of the shame-based "activism" that has dominated the internet left. So tired of "takes" and callouts and regurgitating someone else's words. I do see it shifting in some ways, as more people seem to be turning towards action and even a hint of nuance.

Personally the shift that gives me hope is seeing people turn towards communal and spiritual healing + decolonization. If we don't dismantle the colonizer/cop within and tend to our traumas, we will just keep reiterating the same systems even while having opposing technical/theoretical values. That training runs deep, and a lot of so-called abolitionists refuse to throw down the master's tools. Personally I've only seen that shift happen sustainably in people who have really turned within, faced and worked through the colonial patterns they've been trapped in.

A lot of folks are out here trying to change the world before they've even changed themselves.

Thank you for your words. I'm gonna share it around. Would love to drive this message home to more people so we can stop arguing and start collaborating.

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